Listening

I was having a conversation last night and the topic was listening. Listening is one of the keys to life. You gain so much knowledge by listening to others. You can hear what someone is crying out for, what they need, what they're missing, what they want. Depending on your role in their life you may be able to help them out by showing them your perspective. Looking through others eyes sometimes is all of the advice or help that you need. When you went to school you were told to listen. When you're in a training class or a required class for your job you are expected. When and if you have kids you are expected to listen. When you are in a relationship be that an intimate one or a friendship you are expected to listen. People listen but they don't always hear you. An effective listener is on that listens without thought. Be quiet and listen. You'll hear so much more then what they're saying.......